I have a site that I have run under development with Server Intellect for over a year now. I have the "virtual private server" option w/ the following specs:
Windows Server OS
Xeon 2.33GHz Core
512 MB ECC RAM
1 x 25GB Virtual Disk
250 GB Bandwidth
5 Dedicated IPs
HELM Control Panel
SmarterTools Suite
SQL Server 2005 Express
My site has 6,000 products with 3 variants each (is that 18000 products?) But virtually NO traffic other than me, because the site has not been promoted yet. It crashes ALL the time. Should it? Is simply having a lot of products and categories resource intensive even without much traffic?